To be Pollyanna or not? This main question is sometimes silly but always real for everyone. What are the bad moments in life? Getting late for work and everything, morning syndrome, received bills regularly but no letters, have a lot of neighbours, co-workers but no real friends, being about to cry and have no one to call and be with, feeling lonely without a reasonable reason or with very reasonable reasons, need to pay a lot of bills and have no money , quarrel with people who you don’t recognize anywhere in life, being stucked in heavy traffic or rush hours in life, miss your mom, to realise that you have no best friend to tell your dreams anymore, walking at night and stand on a banana peel, let people break your heart, falling and need someone to stand up and notice there is no one to help, people who watching your sadness and say ”I am sorry”, enjoying your blue mood and actually never care about you but seem as your friends or whatever? The only thing mainly we can do favour for ourselves is playing glad game and never lose our soul. Trying to stand on our own legs and going on breathing with our belief. There are some very important times in all our life that we can say before and after, like before I lost my mom and after it. Life changes according to faith stream. Sometimes we can change nothing, we are just obligued to watch what happens to us and try to live and be stronger even than before. If we don’t care about ourselves, believe me that no one cares, either. Imagine that you have a terrible accident and your only belonging, your car is damaged , yes you may worry about your savings but never much more than your health, you might have been injured or caused another’s death and so on. To think in this way may take time but if you decide on standing your own existence, then you will find the right way, easily. We must find the main power in our heart, some friends may worry about us and try to cure our soul, but they can’t do it as you can do for a long time. If you are sad mostly, they may get bored of you and your problems and you might have fewer friends in time by being a sorrowful one. It hurts but the reality of modern life goes like that. Even you have a lot of problems , think that you would have more and more , if you don’t bear all bad moments and get your bearings and try to walk again as if you have never lived bad things. Being a student in life class is endless but to be a good student we must live hard and try to enjoy, don’t make all hours worse than they are actually. Imagine someone who lost all his family but he tries to hold on life even he is completely alone now. There is no one to say hello when he comes home, no one to eat dinner together, no one to share bad and good moments, no one to eat breakfast, no one to say bye when he leaves home and no one says “take care!”, but he walks along the street to work every morning because he believes that he needs to go on living. Living bad moments, try to remember this very lonely man and walk wherever life takes you without stopping. We must do whatever we can do, but the last thing is to put faith in life and being as strong as we can. Finally, I decide on being Pollyanna. What about you?